Sunday, January 17, 2021

Our World, My World

Happy Monday, 

Our world and my world has not been normal for over a year now. It would be nice to have everything feel normal again.  This week, I am looking forward to having President Biden in office. I am hoping and praying for peaceful times in our country. We may not agree on politics, but we can be respectful and kind to everyone. My post this week is on some of my favorite national parks, since we have not traveled due to COVID these images are from my archives. 

One of my favorite parks is Yellowstone, the scenery and wildlife is just amazing.  The scenic drives in these parks, both Yellowstone and the Tetons in Wyoming are beautiful. 



Grand Prismatic, largest hot spring in Yellowstone. It is the third largest hot spring in the world.  




Various birds seen in the Yellowstone and Tetons National Parks.

Unidentified Hummingbird, Cinnamon Teal, Magpie,
Trumpeter Swan, Cedar Waxwing, Dusky Grouse,
female Mountain Bluebird, Osprey, White Pelican.


Yellowstone's Canyon...  "The best thing about memories is making them."





Glacier National Park in Montana, I am guessing the top left is the Swiftcurrent Lake, we stayed nearby, the Running Eagle Falls or also nicknamed Trick Falls. Lower left the Beargrass looked pretty and bottom right is near Logan Pass Visitor Center. 



Going to the Sun, a very scenic drive in Glacier National Park.   This park road was a hair-raising drive for me.  We saw some Mountain Goats crossing this road, definitely keep your eyes on the road while driving.  




A view of Glacier National Park in Montana. 



Scenic view of  the Grand Canyon National Park.  



"A good life is a collection of happy memories."



Grand Canyon and Colorado River



Arches National Park, the various rock formations all had names, if only I could remember them all.  The top left could be the Balance Rock.  I do remember the bottom left are the Three Sisters and the bottom right is the Landscape Arch. 


Arches NP, Landscape Arch is the longest stone span. It stretches 306 feet and is only 11 feet thick at it's center.

"Take nothing but memories, leave nothing but footprints."

Arches NP, Balance Rock.  "We take photos as a return ticket to a moment otherwise gone."



"Never let your memories be greater than your dreams."

We are looking forward to the days when we feel safe to travel and take some road trips. My dream is to visit all of our National Parks.  Our world is beautiful and our country has some of the greatest National Parks to visit.  These are just of few of the National Parks that hubby and I have visited. Some parks we visited twice, my favorites are Yellowstone, Grand Tetons, Grand Canyon, Bryce and  Zion. 



Hubby and I continue to be happy and healthy, I hope everyone is doing well too. 

Wear your mask and keep your distance!   

What's happening in your corner of the world? Please check out and visit the following memes and links. I hope to see you there. 

 
Thanks to Angie the host of  Mosaic Monday


Thanks to LadyFi  the host of Our World Tuesday! 


Thanks for visiting and commenting, have a happy day and a great new week!


138 comments:

Michelle said...

Gorgeous photos, Eileen! I love all of these places. Stay well!

Marie Smith said...

I loved the Grand Canyon but your photos make me want to visit Yellowstone! Gorgeous!

Yamini MacLean said...

Hari OM
Just breath-taking... Here's to a fine week for you over that way! YAM xx

Tom said...

...fabulous imagines of nature's beauty!

Martha said...

I can't wait until we have Biden in! You have shared such amazing photos today Eileen, each one is magical!

HappyK said...

Your photos are spectacular but even more amazing to actually be there.

Linda W. said...

Enjoyed your photos of your favorite National parks. Some of your favorites are mine too. I grew up an 8-hour drive away from Yellowstone NP so got to visit it many times.

Nancy J said...

Life as normal was so long ago, I,too, hope it can return. Down here, you might not have seen all the drama on our Hauraki Gulf. as Dean Barker was at the helm of American Magic boat, Patriot, they were in the lead, turned round the marker buoy, got a HUGE gust. keeled over, and it took on water. All the crew were safe, but the hull sank and all that was showing was the mast. All other teams came to help, spectator boats offered assistance, and after a massive undertaking, they were towed, stern first, some 17km back to their base. This is a massive blow for team USA, and their next race would be in 5 days, all the electronics and hydraulics were flooded, a huge hole in the hull, but us Kiwis will rally round to give whatever help is needed. We have a cold wind, gusts of heavy rain, and I have a winter fleece jacket on,. Stay safe.XXX

Lowcarb team member said...

I did enjoy seeing all of these photographs.
So many happy memories, I'm pleased you shared them here.

My good wishes.

All the best Jan

Margaret Birding For Pleasure said...

The scenery is amazing and you have captured a good lot of critter photographs Eileen. Hope you are well, stay safe and have a great week ahead,

italiafinlandia said...

Thanks for sharing these beautiful views. The rainbow over the canyon is awesome.
To me it is always interesting to see what animals live in different parts of the world.
Have a nice new week ahead!

At Home In New Zealand said...

I've been twice to the Grand Canyon, Bryce and Zion, and to Arches once. Yellowstone, the Grand Tetons, and Glacier NP are on my wish list for my next visit (hopefully not more than a couple of years away).
I grinned at your hair-raising road – it reminded me of Independence Pass in the Rockies, where I had to shut my eyes, so just as well I wasn’t driving!
Great memories :) Mxx

Irma said...

Hi Eileen,
Superb series of photos and collages of your travels that you have taken before.
I hope we get rid of the virus soon, this is where the vaccinations started.
I hope it will be our turn in March.
Greetings Irma

Barwitzki said...

Thank you very much - what wonderful pictures. Grand Canyon and Colorado River... Arches NP. I'm thrilled
... it was a wonderful good morning Monday tour. I see your pictures with a cup of coffee in hand and dreams. Many Thanks.
Have a nice week. Greetings from Europe

Marit said...

Hello Eileen,
Beautiful photos from your great country!
Yellowstone is a very special place. The arches looks impressive.
Have a nice day, and take care!

chica said...

MARAVILHOSAS fotos, canyons lindos! Adorei o arco-irius! Ótima semana! beijos, chica

Marco Luijken said...

Hello Eileen,
Good to see these pictures of your archive.
What a fantastic pictures. Really amazing!! Picture 2 is so great with the red colors.
So impressive to see that area around the Grand Canyon. Wonderful.

Warm regards,
Marco

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Michelle!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Marie!
Yellowstone will always be my favorite park.
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you YAM!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Tom!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Martha!
I will be happy to see Biden in office, it has been a crazy four years.
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Karen!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Linda!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Jean!
I am glad to hear the American team was safe, it sounds like they will be out of the race.
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Jan!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Margaret!
I hope you stay safe and well!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you for commenting!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Mxx!
They are all great parks, beautiful scenery!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Irma!
We are waiting to get the vaccine, maybe then things can be normal again.
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you for the visit and comment!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Marit!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Chica!
Take care, enjoy your new week!

Ella said...

Hi Eileen,
Very nice photos from your amazing country!
Yellowstone is one of my favorites! I hope that someday there will be a chance to visit all these beautiful places!
Have a nice week!
~ Stay safe and well ~

William Kendall said...

Yellowstone is the only one I've been to.

Tanza Erlambang said...

wonderful photos....great shots.
aww.... rainbow....I did not see it long time....

Have a nice day.

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Marco!
Take care, enjoy your day!
Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Ella!
I hope we can start to travel soon.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you William!
Take care, enjoy your day!
Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Tanza!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

David M. Gascoigne, said...

Whenever I visit our national parks, or even provincial parks which I visit more frequently, I always try to go on a less than perfect weather day, otherwise they get so crowded it really verges on unpleasant. I saw a documentary on Yellowstone and at one point there were more cars than elk!

Nancy Chan said...

Thank you for sharing the beautiful scenic views from your road trips. Beautiful rainbow.

Bill said...

Beautiful photos of your adventures. Nice memories for you to always look back to. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful new week. Take care and stay safe!

Jeanie said...

I've never been to Yellowstone -- this looks just so majestic!

eileeninmd said...

Hello David,
Yellowstone has become very popular, being are loving our parks to death. Luckily when we went it was not too crowded, except for the buffalo and bear jams. Thanks for the comment, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Nancy!
Enjoy your day, have a great new week!

~Lavender Dreamer~ said...

I hope and pray everyone is respectful and peaceful this week! And I love looking at these photos...many places that I've been too. It sure will be nice when we can plan a big trip again! Hugs!

Vera said...

Beautiful pictures that have brought back so many memories to me! The West is a gorgeous area for sure. I also remember the sulphur small at Yellowstone - yuck!! LOL

Sondra said...

Hi Eileen, Really enjoyed seeing your memories, I also visited these same places, and most of them with my Mom so memories made even more precious in her company...We have the most beautiful parks in the world and yet we have to cry out for them to be protected and properly managed. To me that should never be in question. All of us will be happy to have a new and decent person at the helm of the nation.

Inger said...

Thank you for sharing this, it lifted my spirits. Many years ago, I spent a fall and winter in Jackson Hole. Some of the best times of my life.

Rain said...

Hi Eileen! :) I loved seeing all of these photos. I'm not a big traveler, so it's nice to visit through blogs. The rainbow photo is just amazing and I love those arches!! Oh the moose too! :)

MadSnapper said...

i am toatlly loving all those arches, all different all beautiful. i thought the grouse was a turkey. never seen a grouse or a wild turkey. Yellowstone is a place i would visit if i were a traveler. the rainbow over the gorge is spectacular

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Bill!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Jeanie!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Diane!
It will be nice when we can travel again.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Vera!
LOL, I remember the stinky sulphur smell.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Sondra!
These parks should always be protected, that is why they were made into parks. For all of us to enjoy, but greed seems to take over. Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Inger!
We spent a few nights in Jackson Hole, it is a great town.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Rain!
I was thrilled to see the moose for the first time, we saw a few of the males and females.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Sandra!
The grouse looks like a turkey, they put up those tails feathers to show off.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

Mikael Bergman said...

What happiness to experience the beautiful park and nature there

Crafty Green Poet said...

wonderful photos, such spectacular views! Hope all goes well with Wednesday's inauguration

Pat @ Mille Fiori Favoriti said...

I also love visiting our beautiful National Parks. It is hard to chose a favorite but Yellowstone will always be among the ones that amazed me the most as it was so diverse in scenery I loved seeing all your photos --they brought back many memories to me, Eileen. Have a wonderful week! Praying the inauguration goes forth safely.

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Mikael!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Juliet!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

Carol @Comfort Spring Station said...

I agree with you 100%. We can disagree and still be kind. Your photos are gorgeous as always. Thanks for sharing as I need to see more nature today.

Su-sieee! Mac said...

Your photos are awesome, Eileen! I've been to these National Parks, unfortunately at times when I was not into taking photos or even keeping a travel journal. So everything is pretty much a wonderful hodgepodge in my head. I hope I get to see these parks again. Thanks for the memories! :-)

Yogi♪♪♪ said...

Wow a great tour of some of our western National Parks. I am sorry to admit that I have never been to Glacier NP. It's my loss. It's been too long since I have seen the Grand Canyon, Arches, and Bryce.
Road trip time!!

Amy said...

I like to see more geothermal springs around the world, we have ours in NZ too, stay safe.

Rose said...

Gorgeous photos...I so love the rainbow one. It is just so vivid.

NatureFootstep said...

Hi, you have so many gret NP in your country. I recognice Yellowstone and Teton and visted Grand Canyon for a short time about 30 years ago. I have not been to Glacier National Park or Arches. Would have been nice to visit the rest of them.
Take care!

Photo Cache said...

Thank heavens for previous travels that we can look back on during these times of no travel. You are so lucky to see so many beautiful spots.

Worth a Thousand Words

Angie said...

Oh, Eileen, I was so excited to see these pictures of Glacier National Park! Of course, I live nearby and see these scenes regularly, but maybe that is why it thrilled me - something close to home! We are all looking forward to the times when we can travel, and do so in a normal way! Thanks for linking these marvelous pictures to Mosaic Monday!

Lady Fi said...

Wow - fabulous shots! I really really hope the transition to Biden and Harris is peaceful.

Hootin Anni said...

Oh to have Yellowstone Park pristine like it was many years ago. Now-a-days it's all so ugly with traffic and constructed objects all over. I would go back, but the scenery is now so spoiled. As for Grand Canyon, living just a short distance from there in AZ for a decade, we went there often. Nothing like it.

Awesome photos as always Eileen.

Jeevan said...

These are truly natural marvel at shoot! Excellent collage of birds and natural sceneries... Loved it

Take care

Elizabeth Edwards said...

hey there, i love this area of the US ...i first traveled there with my parents in the early 90's, then later with the hubby. so it holds such a great place in my mind and memories. hope one day to see it again. maybe??! we met a man who is going to Hawaii soon ... they have to get a virus test before they can go but it is being allowed ..Alaska and Hawaii are the last 2 for us in the US. u take care this week. ( ;

eileeninmd said...

Thanks Beth! I am missing most of the national parks located in the middle of the country, I have seen most of the east coast and west coast states. I have taken a cruise to Alaska and have been to Hawaii four times. We are hoping to travel more after we get the vaccine. Take care, have a great day and a happy week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Pat!
I hope this is a peaceful inauguration and week ahead!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Carol!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Su-siee!
I have a hodgepodge of memories in my head too.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Yogi!
Glacier is a pretty park!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Amy!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Rose!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Monica!
It will be nice when we can all feel safe to travel again.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you for the comment!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Angie!
Hubby and I do miss traveling, it was one of the many things we took for granted.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Lady Fi!
Yes, I am hoping for a peaceful transition.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Anni!
I have heard all the parks are too crowded now, some you need a reservation to drive into the park.
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Jeevan!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

Barbara Rogers said...

Fantastic series of National Park photos! I visited many of these places one summer...and don't have the photos any more. But the memories are there. Seeing a series of meteor showers on a dark walk with a ranger one night when camping in Bryce Canyon is a memory I'll never forget.

Francisco Manuel Carrajola Oliveira said...

Belas fotografias, gostei de ver.
Um abraço e boa semana.

Andarilhar
Dedais de Francisco e Idalisa
O prazer dos livros

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Barbara!
Memories are good, I would like to see a meteor shower!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you for the visit and comment!
Take care, enjoy your day! Wishing you a happy new week!

Debbie said...

this was a great selection from your archives, i really enjoyed all of your images!! i too can't wait for things to get back to normal, so we too can travel!!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Debbie!
I am looking forward to normal times again.
Take care, enjoy your day!

DeniseinVA said...

Your post really resonates with me Eileen, in so many ways. Thank you and for the beautiful photos also. I would also like to thank you for the ID of my sister-in-law's Pied-billed Grebe photo. I enjoyed looking the bird up and finding out more about it. I am very grateful for your help.

Joyful said...

Hi Eileen, I agree with your sentiments about agreeing to disagree so we can live together peacefully. I hope tomorrow's inauguration goes well and peacefully. I love all your photos. I've not yet been to Yellowstone. I would love to go there some day if the opportunity arises. Have a great week ahead. x

Linda said...

Gorgeous photos! I haven't been to many of our western parks. I did visit the Grand Canyon, and spent a half day in the Tetons. I would like to see more.

margi said...

Beautiful photos and wonderful places!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Denise!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Penny!
I hope all goes safely for the inauguration.
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Linda!
The Tetons are beautiful, it is another favorite park.
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Margi!
Take care, enjoy your day!

Maria said...

São Sebastião, livrai_me desta peste que se abateu sobre a humanidade. Livrai_me e livrai minha filha, minha família e toda a terra. Amém!

Ana Mínguez Corella said...

Hi Eileen!!!... Beautiful pictures of these wonderful national parks... I hope you're well and healthy... I wish peaceful and healthy in the world... Cheers 😊....

VENTANA DE FOTO said...

En todos los países de la tierraa, estamos igual. Hace tiempo que no salgo de mi ciudad, tampoco hago fotos y recurro a los archivos que tengo de un tiempo atrás.

Deseo que siga prosperando su país en plena armonía.

Diane said...

Another group of fabulous images Eileen. I have on my bucket list Yellowstone and the Grand Tetons, I hope if things get better with the virus hubby and I can see them this year. Thanks for sharing the adventures.

Hugs diane

ellen b. said...

It is amazing to hear of all the National Parks you have visited. You've done well!! We really enjoy Yellowstone. That shot of the rainbow on the canyon in Yellowstone is beautiful.

Sallie (FullTime-Life) said...

One of America’s best ideas: our National Parks. We feel just as you do about Covid ... being super careful and looking forward to being able to travel again someday. Your photo collection is stunning and brings back some wonderful memories! We have visited and loved nearly all of our National Parks, and feel so fortunate to have had those opportunities. It was one of our goals when we were full time RVers. ......
Today (Wednesday) was such a good day ... it really feels like the start of a new year ... a new era!

Iris Flavia said...

Very, very beautiful! Thank you for sharing, oh, I would like to travel again, too! See all this for real, gathering memories (luckily we did in Australia, but I´d love to visit your country, also).

The Padre said...

So Many Peaceful Locations To Simply Feel And Absorb Joy - Well Done - Perfect Post

Cheers

Laura. M said...

Ayer fue un buen día para los democratas Eileen. Me alegro por ello.
Recordar viajes pasados es volver a hacerlos. Esperemos que pronto podamos volver a viajar Eileen.Estos diez meses que llevamos parados ya se hacen largos.
Preciosa entrada. Gracias.
Buen jueves. Cuidaros.
Un abrazo

RedPat said...

You have shown us some amazing shots, Eileen!

John's Island said...

Hi Eileen, You sure have some wonderful pictures in this post. One of my favorite places in this whole world is Yellowstone. The pioneers called it Wonderland. I love this: "We may not agree on politics, but we can be respectful and kind to everyone." I agree completely and could not have said it better. Thank you for all! Take care and stay safe. Looking forward to Saturday's Critters. John

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Maria!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Ana!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you for the comment!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Diane!
Take care, enjoy your day! Have a happy weekend!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Ellen!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Sallie!
I do love our National Parks.
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Iris!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you, they are wonderful locations!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Laura!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you RedPat!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Hello John,
Thank you for the kind words and comment!
Take care, enjoy your day! Have a happy weekend!

Rostrose said...

Hello dearest Eileen!
In Europe, we watched the US election and the events related to it breathlessly - and I also hope that the USA will now experience calmer times. Your Yellowstone photos are wonderful - we were in some national parks, but unfortunately we didn't make it to Yellowstone - I only saw a TV movie about the return of the wolves and how it has changed the landscape in a positive way. And we were in Iceland a few years ago, where we saw (and smelled ;-)) hot springs and geysers. We have been to Grand Canyon National Park too, and Arches reminds me of Bryce Canyon (apart from the longest stone span). There are such fascinating natural beauties in the world. Happy are those who can actually look back on such memories. But I hope, like you, that we can travel again in the not too distant future.
Hugs and best wishes and thank you for the compliment to my daugther :-),
Traude

Rostrose said...

PS: I forgot: You told me that you would like the receipe of the cinnamon rolls. I'm not sure when I can manage to post it, but this receipe is very close to it: https://www.zuckerzimtundliebe.de/2019/09/rezept-fuer-fluffige-dicke-apfel-nuss-schnecken-apple-nut-rolls-recipe/
(You can translate it if you insert the link in google translater.)
X

eileeninmd said...

Hello John,
Thank you for the kind words and comment!
Take care, enjoy your day! Have a happy weekend!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Traude! I have been to the hot springs park in Iceland, it is similar to Yellowstone!
There is so much beauty around the world to see, I hope we all can travel safely again soon.
Take care, enjoy your day! Have a happy weekend!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Traude for the recipe link! Have a great day!

Helma said...

Hi Eileen,
this beautiful hot spring is great to see.
Nice colors too.
President Biden has now been installed and I think there will be a completely different Amerka and better :-)
I hope our world will become normal again!
The photos in your blog are absolutely beautiful !!!!
Greetings, Helma

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Helma!
It is great to have an honest and decent man as a president, I am happy!
Have a great day, enjoy your weekend!

A Bit of the Blarney said...

Oh my, what breathtaking photos! Hames me homesick for the West. Was not able to go "home" this year and it breaks my heart! Maybe soon!! Thank you for this post!! AND oh the wonderful rainbows!! HOPE! Yeah!!

diane b said...

You sure have beautiful National Parks. I am proud to say that I have visited all those in your favourite list even though I live on the other side of the world. Good luck in the future USA.

eileeninmd said...

Thank you for the comment!
Take care, enjoy your day!

eileeninmd said...

Thank you Diane!
Take care, enjoy your day!

baili said...

we sometimes watch videos online of parks America have
but your images are so amazing and your words and proverbs go greatly along with them dear Eileen !

thank you for taking along!

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